What does CHANGE mean to you?

The only constant in this life, is change. What a beautiful phenomenon it is!

I personally love change and I love updating different aspects of my life: My hair, my wardrobe, my relationships, etc.

Sometimes you can fall into a rut and you remain stuck in this big cycle of routine and bad habits. That’s when change comes in and makes wonders! A simple little shift in your life can make such an impact and can even transform your philosophy towards a certain situation, completely changing your view on life!

How can you recognize if you need to change a certain aspect in your life?

1. It no longer inspires you
2. It no longer brings you happiness
3. It doesn’t make you reach your fullest potential
4. It doesn’t constantly make you evolve into a better person
5. It makes you feel less than what you are
6. It simply does not make you want to go out there and live your life, while being true to who you want to be.

Action: Take a few minutes to sit down and write down everything that no longer serves you. Really think about it. Be truthful with yourself and don’t judge. Make a list of everything that makes you unhappy and everything that DOES make you happy.

Now, work on everything that’s bringing you negative feelings and replace them with happy thoughts, with things you love doing. Don’t ever hesitate to make a change, specially if it’s for the best. Easier said than done, right? Yup. But you have to start somewhere and by simply writing everything, it’s already a huge step. I will mention though, be conscious of your decision making and make sure to be aware of the fact that you may hurt people along the way of this transformation. And yes, it’s totally okay. Let me make something clear, there is absolutely nothing wrong with putting yourself first if it’s to improve your life and live in harmony. The most important step when changing something, is accepting it and taking action on it to enhance your life.

Now, let’s use a  different scenario of “change”. What if you didn’t want this specific change in your life and it was totally unexpected? What if it was due to a certain circumstance and it was just thrown at you with no warning? My best advice to you is: Accept it, feel it, drop it and then move on. Take every little emotion you feel and transform it into an inspiring change. Use it in your favor and make the best of it. We don’t always like change but you must understand that change is always an opportunity to elevate your current situation and to keep growing. Not everyone will agree with me, but I will promise you that it is ALWAYS for the best… Yeah, at first you will go through a roller coaster and it will feel like it will last forever. But once the storm passes, you will see the sunshine and realize that it was meant to happen just like that and no other way. Change is a necessity. It makes us evolve into better human beings and it upgrades our lives, always for the best! Don’t be afraid of change. Instead, be afraid if you never want change.

Oh! And always remember, you are like really pretty.

OVERVIEW: ACCEPT AND MAKE THE BEST OUT OF CHANGE AND USE IT TO EVOLVE. IT WILL ALWAYS TAKE YOU TO A BETTER PLACE.

Love always,

Angela